Pros: Deep, rumbly vibrations; good size and shape for holding in the palm of your hand; versatile enough to be used on many different body parts; five vibration speeds and seven patterns; made of soft, comfortable silicone; waterproof
Cons: Might not be firm enough for users who like to apply a lot of pressure
The Best Beginner Wand Vibrator: Dame Com
Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Hold down the power button to turn the vibrator on or off, and use the other two buttons to cycle through its speeds and patterns.
Why you’ll like it: Laino likes products made by Dame because it’s “a company designed by women for women.” This wand vibrator is ideal for beginners because it’s smaller and slimmer than a typical wand, so less likely to seem intimidating, but still packs a punch. The contoured handle makes it easier to manipulate into a variety of positions and angles, and (as with most wands) it works just as well for muscle massage as it does for sexier applications.
Pros: Rumbly vibrations; five speeds and five patterns; ergonomically-shaped handle; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Not as strong as some other wands; vibrations translate into the handle a fair bit; short battery life
The Best Beginner Dildo: Lovehoney Glitter Silicone Dildo
Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Apply water-based lube before insertion.
Why you’ll like it: Cooper recommends this slim, flexible Lovehoney dildo for first-time sex toy penetration, whether anal or vaginal, because of its “tapered tip that allows for effortless insertion, and its flared base which can also act as a handle.” Plus, its colorful glittery exterior is also fun to behold, so it might be a less intimidating option for newbies than something hyper-realistic.
Pros: Small-to-average size (6 inches long by 1.27 inches in diameter) makes it beginner-friendly and comfortable for vaginal or anal penetration; harness-compatible; suction cup base for hands-free use; good curve for targeting G-spot or prostate
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Beginner G-Spot Dildo: Lelo Ella
Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Apply water-based lube before insertion.
Why you’ll like it: This dildo is a favorite of long-time sex toy reviewer Epiphora’s since it’s responsible for her first G-spot orgasm and squirting experience. “I felt, for the first time in my sex toy testing life, like a toy actually belonged inside of me,” she wrote in her review. Its double-ended design offers two different sensations: One end is curved to target the G-spot perfectly with its flat head, while the other end is thicker and straighter for a fuller feeling. The dildo’s matte silicone also feels luxurious to the touch, and you can use it on yourself or have a partner use it on you.
Pros: Double-ended shape for extra versatility; flat head stimulates G-spot well; thicker end is more filling
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; lack of a proper handle can make it hard to thrust with; not anal-safe
The Best Beginner G-Spot Vibrator: Svakom G-Spot Vibrator
Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Hold down the “S” button to turn the toy on or off, and use the other two buttons to cycle through its vibration modes.
Why you’ll like it: Hot tip: “If you’re looking at internal sex toys and sometimes don’t want to explore vibrations, you can always use it with the vibrations turned off like a dildo,” Cooper points out. To experiment with that concept, look for one with a great G-spot-targeting shape like this one by Svakom. That way, you can use it externally or internally, with some rumbly action to it or not.
Pros: Five vibration speeds and five patterns; rumbly vibrations; good shape for targeting the G-spot; quiet; waterproof; affordable
Cons: Vibrations may not be strong enough for some users; can’t be used with silicone-based lube
The Best Beginner Pressure-Wave Toy: Satisfyer Pro 2
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
How to Use: Apply water-based lube to the nozzle of the toy, then place it over your clitoris or other erogenous region (you may need to experiment with positions to find the one that feels best). Hold the power button for one to two seconds to turn the toy on or off. Use the “+” and “–” buttons to scroll through the toy’s intensity settings.
Why you’ll like it: Pressure-wave stimulation uses rhythmic pulses of air to “touchlessly” stimulate a sensitive area, usually the clitoris. This is one of the better pressure-wave toys you can get for under $50, so it’s a good option for beginners who are curious about the sensations of pressure waves. Marie points out that it’s not just for clitoral usage, either, it’s “great for nipple, frenulum, and other erogenous zone stimulation” too.
Pros: 11 pressure-wave intensities; soft silicone head for a better, more comfortable seal around the clitoris; waterproof; relatively inexpensive
Cons: Won’t fit all clit sizes; some people find pressure-wave stimulation overly intense or uncomfortable
The Best Beginner Stroker: Tenga Egg
Materials: Elastomer
How to Use: Take the toy out of its packaging, and use the included packet of lube to lubricate the inside and opening of the toy before sliding your penis inside. Tenga Eggs are disposable toys and are meant to be thrown away after one use, though many users report that flipping the Egg inside out and washing it thoroughly between uses (leaving it to dry before flipping it right-side-out-again) can extend its lifespan to four or five uses.
Why you’ll like it: “Discreet and compact, the Tenga Egg is a disposable masturbator for people with penises, providing an enjoyable and affordable solo experience,” Marie says. While technically one-use-only, you can get a few more sessions out of it if you flip it inside-out, rinse it thoroughly, and let it dry fully after each use. It should at least give you an idea of whether you enjoy strokers and want to invest in a longer-lasting option, like a Fleshlight.
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